
Am I A Mother?
A coaching journey for childfree and childless women – or anyone holding questions around motherhood.
You’re here because a part of you wonders:
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What does it mean if I’m not a mother?
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Who am I without (the idea of) a family?
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How to live a full, meaningful life when I remain childfree or childless?
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How to find out what I truly want?
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What if I regret my choices later?
These are not just questions. They’re invitations.
Invitations to explore grief, longing, anger, relief, joy, freedom. To hold your story as sacred. To find language for an unlived life—and celebrate the one you are living.
This is the journey I made myself, in my mid 30s. It took me years to go from feeling ChildLESS to living ChildFREE. I didn't know where to go for help and I didn't even acknowledge my pain and need for support.
That's why I created this program for you. So you don’t have to walk that path alone.
Whether you’re childfree by choice, childless not by choice, or somewhere in between: this program is for you.


Do you struggle with (no) motherhood on your own terms?
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Feeling as if you're missing the boat because you're single or not in the position to start a family?
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Worry you might be too late or will regret your choice?
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Are you feeling alone, left out or failing?
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Do you calculate how much time you have left?
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Feeling limited each passing month that you didn't choose or met the right person?
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Do you worry about the relationship with your partner or friends changing if you do or don't have kids?
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Are you unsure you can create a fulfilling childfree life?
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Do you fear experiencing intense emotions about the topic and 'deal' with it by avoiding them?
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Are you going through fertility programs hoping for your desired result?
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Or, are you happily childfree but searching for direction and meaning to live a more fulfilled life?
If you recognize any of these struggles, this program is FOR YOU!

Do you want to feel...
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Clarity on your choice
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You're not alone
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That you bring value to other people’s lives
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Confident that you can create your own happiness
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Inspired, supported and carried through this journey
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Joyful and empowered no matter the outcome of your partnersearch
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Discovering your potential that is currently hidden behind these beliefs
There are multiple roads to happiness: not just one!
No more shoving it under the rug!
What's included in this journey?
You’ll receive:
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7 themed modules with video, reflections and writing prompts (25+ videos, total 5+ hours)
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A structured path through grief, identity, freedom, shame and joy
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Practical tools to help you move forward with clarity
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Bonus Masterclass: 'How to help yourself keep calm physically during a difficult convo' by Rise with Regine (trauma-informed healer & nervous system coach)
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A compassionate container to meet the emotions you’ve been holding
And now, for the first time—you can begin this journey fully on your own terms.
Become more than ready with our packages

- Priscilla
"I was doubting motherhood because I want to travel and live my life. But thanks to AIAM I found out there was fear behind my doubt. Caused by knowing my mom who had lost my father when I was very little. I couldn't think of anyone better to guide me during this journey than Anne!"

- Solange
"I started this AIAM-journey for the motherhood topic but it gave me so much more. I expected to get an answer that my decision to not have kids was the right one but I found something different.
I am better at just being ME."

- Anairis
"Everything Anne said in the video’s is so valuable. I also loved the way she created a safe space in the WhatsApp group for communication and support. In my own journey I am now able to see more options and I take steps to reach my goals!"
'Am I A Mother?' Packages
Am I A Mother?
Self-paced coaching program (DIY)
- Your Roadmap to Joy
Go through the full AIAM (short for 'Am I A Mother?') program in your own time and pace.
You’ll get:
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Access to the complete course
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Video guidance + written assignments
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Journal prompts for deep reflection
Perfect for anyone who prefers gentle structure, solitude, and self-direction.
Going through all modules and assignments, you'll uncover your unique Roadmap to Joy.
* min. 2 years access to the Program
(or even better: it will only end if I one day decide to stop running this Program)
* 30 days Show-me-your-work
Money BACK guarantee
Option 1
With guidance
DIY + 1:1 Coaching
- Your Personalized Transformation
Do you wish for extra guidance on your journey?
With this option you do the program on your own, but with live support along the way.
You’ll get:
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Everything from the DIY version
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4 or 8x 1:1 online sessions with me (75 mins, every 2-3 weeks)
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4 sessions helps you go deeper, ask questions, integrate and receive personalized support
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8 sessions is ideal if you’re in an active phase of processing, transition or decision-making
Get more support to navigate your personal pain points, utilize the tools effectively, and reclaim your happiness.
Option 3
Option 2
* For all packages listed:
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Payment in installments is possible.
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Prices are intended for private individuals. If you're reaching out on behalf of a business or organization, different rates may apply — feel free to get in touch for a custom offer that fits your needs.
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All prices are excluding VAT.
Grieving creates space for new opportunities
After this program you:
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Know how to deal with big emotions
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Can use your emotions to find your deepest desires and hidden fears around your future
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Got rid of doubt around motherhood
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Gained clarity on what you want in life and how to make it happen
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Created space for new experiences, perspectives and choices when it comes to (not) having kids
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Are able to feel, communicate and hold your boundaries & desires towards others
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Have a clear sight on your direction, with or without kids
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Know the settings of your Compass
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Make and communicate choices based on your Compass
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Unlocked many new options on your motherhood/childfree journey you didn't see before
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Created your very personal and unique Roadmap to Joy!
If you know where you're going
you won't get lost

- Julia
"Being in this group of women brought me back home to myself. It was like hanging out as teenagers but then with actual inspiring and empowering talks!”

- Jozanne
“Anne’s guidance allows me to be me completely. I feel a motherly energy coming from her. I feel so safe, carried and taken care of. Anne guided me in a moment that felt so scary to me. She asked me what I needed to feel supported. That helped me go through it.”

- Daniek
"I’m so happy with Mamacita Moments! It’s a great change from being around mothers with young kids. It was so much fun and I got to meet such inspiring women and entrepreneurs!”

Modules

Deal with Big
Emotions
Big emotions can be so overwhelming and scary. Emotions like sadness, giving up hope, failure, loneliness or anger can be so painful that we try to avoid it. But when we do that, eventually it makes us feel stuck. When we feel stuck and don't see our life progress, suppressing big feelings is the cause. This module helps you with tools to see big emotions, to feel and deal with them. In order to create space for joy. That rug you used to shove your feelings under? We are going to get rid of it. It will be scary AND you are going to love it. I promise you!

Set your Compass
We tell ourselves stories all the time. Some lift you up, some drag you down. Do you listen to the stories you tell yourself? Stories about what is & isn't possible for you? Can you differentiate between the stories that help you and the ones that hold you back? In this module you learn the steps to set your compass. Guided by the stories you currently tell yourself about motherhood and your future. In this module you will transform it into a story that fits your core desires. A story that functions as your compass.

Create Space
Grief: the big emotion that lies in the center of all change. Allowing yourself to grieve what is not here; the dream you lost, relationships that change; the version of you that arises if you choose to have kids. Too often we doubt and postpone decisions because we don’t dare to look at what's holding us back. We sabotage dates and new partners with hidden grief. We don’t let grief in because it feels as if we give up hope on what our heart desires. In this module you learn how to process grief in a way that helps you connect with both your pain and your joy. Your before-me and your future-me.

Unlock your Options
There is more than one way to live a fulfilled and joyful life. When you feel stuck in doubt and sadness you don't believe that, but we tackled that in module 1&2 ;-) The feeling of being stuck happens we are too attached to a certain outcome. Therefore in this module you will get creative and think outside of your box! I will seduce you to think of other than your 'normal' ways of looking at motherhood. With your compass of the previous module guiding you, you'll dive into options to take a closer look at. With no strings attached. Get ready to allow yourself to think freely and creatively!

Communicate
Boundaries & Desires
Everyone has an opinion on your choice for (no) motherhood. Showing up & speaking up for yourself in an effective way is essential to be your own ally in an endless stream of unwanted questions. Learn how to communicate in a way that matches your personal values and is clear for the other person, and how to deal with let's-call-them 'clumsy' questions. This module is all about communicating in a connected way. Connected with yourself first. You will dive into why this is so hard for you with some people. What do you think they expect from you? And why is that so important for you?

Your Roadmap to Joy
It's time to start putting your unlocked options into action! Time to start living your self-devised compass! In this module you select the options that energize you and put them into action. Small steps, big steps. As big as you can 'hold' yourself, as you learned in the first module. Remember, it's your journey, your compass, your actions. With a bunch of cheerleaders on your side!

I was 37, I felt alone and
as if I failed as a woman.
I felt ashamed of both my ‘societal achievements’ and my feelings around it. So I didn’t share the depth of my sadness. With anyone.
It took me years to go from ChildLESS 🥺 to ChildFREE 😊. A difference of 4 letters and an endless amount of big emotions. I had to remember who I was, in order to continue my life. To me, childLESS encompasses hurt, loss, feeling less, being stuck and lost dreams...
ChildFREE holds joy, freedom, creation, new possibilities and going with the flow. And yes, it also includes grief!
My mission is that no one feels as alone as I once did. That's why I created a coaching program that helps you find YOUR way. A program that makes you feel like you belong. You did not fail. You're just on your way.
I don’t pretend to know what you should do. Instead, I show you how to hold yourself and create your own Roadmap to Joy!
I truly believe: whether you want to become a mother or not, JOY is out there waiting for you!
And you don't have to do it alone.
Much love,
Anne
